The choices we make and do will create our lives.
During the final class meeting before exam week begins I ask my students for feedback. In this case, I ask them to consider advice they would like to pass along to first-year college students. Most of my students are in their first or second college semesters. While many are between 18 and 25 years of age, a good number are in their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Interestingly, the advice transcends calendar years. It is amazing what 15 weeks of college expectations and discipline will do to one’s outlook on life. And I never get tired of being a part of this growth each semester.
Research indicates that many of our entering students are woefully prepared for the college experience.
Today I will share my students’ thoughts with you about succeeding in college. While this list can easily be labeled “College Readiness Advice,” I would encourage you to see how their advice easily can be applied to our own lives—in business, at home, and in our communities. So, here, in no particular order (other than the order they spoke in class), is the considered wisdom from a few of my fall semester students.
- Don’t take energy vampires on your journey.
- You have been given a gift from God—use it wisely.
- Forget about Plan A and Plan B. You better have a Plan C!
- Success leads to confidence.
- Use the college resources for your benefit.
- Life happens.
- You need specific actions if you want to get to your dreams.
- Small steps keep it manageable.
- This student success course was about building discipline.
- Discipline allows me to get to higher levels in life.
- Attend and be part of each class and day.
- Develop your “live” social network.
- Don’t eat cafeteria food. [!]
- I don’t need anyone else’s drama.
- If you don’t want to be here [college] don’t waste your time and money.
- Be thankful for not only yours but also the motivation, dedication and inspiration you get from your classmates. [One of my students actually wrote a love letter to the class and read it from the front of the room!]
- Pay attention to details.
- Don’t just read about strategies—apply them often.
- Ask questions.
- Be timely.
- Online classes take discipline.
- Make sound decisions.
- Surround yourself with people who love you.
- If you daydream rather than plan—you will get nowhere.
- Give it all you got.
- Research your options.
- Seek out nutritious people.
- Surround yourself with people who want to better themselves.
- Be about what God has called you to do.
- Never give up.
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My short takeaway on what my students said: The choices we make and do will create our lives.
Share this list with a student, colleague, friend or family member. And feel free to share your success strategies.
Enjoy your week—and H.T.R.B.as needed!
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