(Issue #587) Serendipity, Beshert, and The Red Thread

Does serendipity lead to destiny or create destiny?

In April of 2017, I delivered a keynote address in Caesar’s Palace on the Las Vegas Strip. My topic: Purposeful Collaboration in the Workplace. One of the examples I shared with the audience in that ballroom came from Delivering Happiness by Tony Hsieh, the founder of Zappos. 

April 2017

Hsieh wrote that we need to “maximize collisions to accelerate serendipity.” That is, we need to put ourselves in the position to connect with as many pertinent resources as possible in order to increase chances for progress, growth, learning, and connections. Unthinking isolation can create separation.  

Zappos office complex. Old Las Vegas.

Laurie and I spent the next afternoon touring the architecture and history of Downtown Las Vegas. Also known as Old Las Vegas, this area is a few miles north of the famous Las Vegas strip.  We were fortunate to explore the area with Paco, the Art Curator for Zappos. I had been hoping for a chance encounter to shake hands and get a photo with the legendary founder of Zappos.  Chances were slim.  However, during the last five minutes of our more than two-hour walking tour, who did we bump into on the sidewalk? Tony Hsieh.

Tony Hsieh and me. April 2017. Serendipity.

Serendipity or destiny?

A few nights ago, I was introduced to two concepts that reminded me of that serendipitous meeting on a Las Vegas sidewalk: Beshert and The Red Thread.

Beshert is a Yiddish term that can be translated as fate, destiny, that something is meant to be. Like the inevitability of a relationship developing.

The Red Thread can be found in the Chinese and Japanese cultures. With slight variations, the read thread is what connects those who are destined to meet. The thread remains throughout life, pulling us toward a situation like a relationship that we felt destined to find. In tough times and in good, the thread connects.

When I heard the explanations of Beshert and The Red Thread I thought of Hsieh’s “collisions” for “serendipity.” If we remain walled off in an office, our home, or some self-imposed isolation, we limit our collisions. We minimize our chances to “bump” into someone or an idea.

Do we, as a consequence, tinker with our destiny?

Think of a serendipitous community connection that introduced you to a project you knew you were destined to lead. Or a blind date that led to a lifetime relationship.

Coincidence or destiny? Meant to be or up to your actions?

Does serendipity lead us to destiny or create destiny for us?


Video recommendation for the week:

A video explaining The Red Thread.


Make it a great week and HTRB has needed.

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5 Responses to (Issue #587) Serendipity, Beshert, and The Red Thread

  1. marianbeaman says:

    Enjoyed this all the way through as well as the link to your meeting Hoppi. Cliff and I met on a blind date too. If you looked like Miami Vice, he looked like a playboy (never was!). The link: https://marianbeaman.com/2013/03/19/how-we-met-carebear-cliff/


  2. Like the times you and I would bump into each other in the halls of Stanton and at FSCJ.


  3. Possible, I guess, if the passing each other in the halls led to a something other than a hello. Like, “Hey I was meaning to contact you about an idea for a new course/book/program. Glad I saw you. Let’s talk…..” I guess we can bump into people daily but it never leads to any discovery or invention or hypotheses.


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