“Silent gratitude is not much use to anyone.”
– Gertrude Stein –
Saying “thank you.” Giving a cheerful “good morning!” Expressing appreciation. Providing a hug, emotionally if not physically. Each of these requires a tiny investment of energy. The result compounds in ways we may not anticipate.
I have been spending time lately listening to my podcast episodes and reacquainting myself with the wonderful insights of my guests. After I re-listen to an episode, I take a few minutes to send an email thanking the guest for his/her contributions to the community. Literally, the email takes about 180 seconds to create and “send.”
The goal is simple: recognition and validation of a person. A small act.
Almost to a person, their responses (which I was not expecting) said something along the lines of “you don’t know how much your email means to me.” One individual was having a particularly rough week (which I had no way of knowing). The email told me, “Thanks for the email…appreciate the little things in life!”
Five years ago, I dedicated myself to a year a gratitude. You can read about here. I committed myself to a simple daily discipline—and it continues to give back to others. (I still have people, to whom I sent a gratitude note, share that they have kept and cherish my handwritten note.)
Think of the small acts of kindness done for you—and that you do for others. It does not take much effort to say thank you or recognize a job-well-done.
Thank you for reading and sharing my blog. Thank you for the gratitude you share with your community.
P.S. A few hours after I wrote this blog post, I received an unexpected “Thank You Note” from a friend. She simply wanted to thank me for being in her life. A card that I will tuck away in my gratitude file.
Video recommendation for the week.
I have shared this video before. It never gets old because it helps us connect with one another on a personal, meaningful, and authentic level.
Make it an inspiring week and H.T.R.B. as needed.
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